Let’s face it, ladies. It wouldn’t be particularly hard for you to find a date if you wanted one today. If you walked around carrying a sign with your phone number and the words “date me” you would attract all sorts of guys. The problem is that they would all pretty much be weirdos. The real issue is finding the right guy. But we have some good news. There are several strategies that you can use to get a normal guy to fall in love.
– Eye Contact
Eye contact is a sneaky trick that can make guys fall in love, but it really works. Why? Because it simulates the behavior of couples who actually are in love. A Harvard study found that people who are in love spend 75% of the time looking at each other. This was significantly higher compared to platonic friends. So stare away, ladies. Just make sure to blink from time to time.
– Don’t Reveal Too Much About Yourself
Showing openness and sincerity is all good, but there are certain limits to how much you should say, especially if you are just getting to know each other. If you come right out and talk about annoying ex-boyfriends or complain about your gossipy roommate, you will come off as naive. You can gradually reveal more and more about yourself, but in order to attract him (and get him to fall in love!!!) you should remain something of an intriguing secret.
– Rely on Mutual Friends
This one isn’t always possible, of course. But if you happen to have mutual friends, they can go a long way towards vouching for you. As an alternative, you could cultivate friendships between the guy and your friends (and vice versa). This could build up trust and ultimately lead him to fall in love. Wouldn’t that be nice?
– Play Hard To Get
We’re not going to lie. Getting a guy by throwing yourself at him works 99% of the time. But remember, ladies, we’re talking about the search for the right guy who wants a meaningful relationship. A useful strategy is to make him work for your affection. Flirt a bit, but don’t let him cross any boundaries. Call or text him…and then suddenly stop and force him to contact you. By doing so, he will be more inclined to fall in love since he understands that a real relationship requires effort.
– Distinguish Yourself From Other Women
If you want a guy to fall in love, you have to separate yourself from the pack. This means highlighting the elements of your personality that make you unique and irresistible. Impress him by paying attention to small details. Market yourself. Figure out what mutual interests you have in order to enhance your compatibility. If you do these things the right way, he will definitely fall in love.
– Laugh…but Not Too Much
Of all the way that people bond, very few come close to the feeling of shared laughter. When you laugh at a guy’s stories or jokes, you are accomplishing two things at once: you are making him feel more confident and you are creating an emotional connection. This will go a long way towards making the guy fall in love. However, exercise some restraint. Don’t laugh at literally everything he says. It will come off as insincere or indicate to him that you are anxious.


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